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Episode 174: “Givers or Takers in BNI”

Synopsis

This week Frederick Marcoux, national director of BNI Australia joins Dr. Misner. Since Frederick took over as director, BNI Australia has grown by 50% and the close of business had doubled.

Most BNI members Frederick encounters are givers, but recently someone complained to him that there were takers everywhere in BNI. Frederick’s response was that our job is to show the takers the benefits of becoming a giver.

One exercise that helps demonstrate this is the “Hot Potato.” This is a follow up to the Classification Cowboy slides we discussed in Episode 164. Givers in BNI pass referrals to each other like a hot potato. (Watch for the Hot Potato PowerPoint in a future issue of BNI SuccessNet.)

The takers often drop out of BNI because they aren’t successful. People recognize them for what they are and don’t pass business to them. But if the group can turn a taker into a giver, that’s a better outcome.

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Episode 173: “What Are the First Words Out of Your Mouth?”

Synopsis

Assuming you’ve followed the suggestions in previous podcasts and started out by asking questions, what’s the next step? What do you say when someone asks you what you do? You need to be prepared, and you need to have something quick and interesting. You need a Unique Selling Proposition.

Don’t just say “I’m a consultant.” Say “I work with small businesses to help them attract more clients than anyone could possibly handle.”

The Referral Institute’s USP is “We help people work less, make more, and create referrals for life.”

The natural response to a USP like this is to say “How do you do that?”

Your assignment this week is to come up with a USP for your business and share it here in the comments. Then share it with your BNI chapter.

Once you’ve tested your USP, come back and tell us how it worked and whether you changed it for a better effect.

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Episode 172: “Being in Sync With Your Networking Partners”

Synopsis

When Dr. Misner and his wife Beth were on safari in South Africa, there was a suspension bridge between the main lodge and the guest suites. When they didn’t walk in sync, the flexing of the bridge jarred them, but if they walked in sync, with the same stride, it was much easier to cross.

The same is true of networking. You need to walk in sync with your referral partners. You need to cooperate and to collaborate, and that requires two things:

  • Proximity: you have to stay in contact with each other. Have one-to-one meetings.
  • Stay focused on how you can help each other in business. Keep looking for things you can do for your networking partners.

If you do these things, you’ll build deep relationships and trust, and everyone’s business will benefit.

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Episode 171: “A Business Model That Doesn’t Make Sense”

Synopsis

Sam Schwartz, National Director and franchise owner for BNI in Israel, Hungary, Bulgaria, and Romania, and the Director of Training for BNI in Europe, joins Dr. Misner on the podcast today.

Any business coach or entrepreneur would tell you the business model of BNI doesn’t make sense. We give our members the power to choose our future clients. We tell successful entrepreneurs, “You have to volunteer your time, you have to help other people to get business, you have to play by BNI’s rules, and you have to pay a membership fee. Not only that, you can’t join a chapter without being sponsored by an existing member.”

But BNI gets results. Not only does it bring its members business through referrals, but also personal growth, knowledge, and all the other benefits of being in a room full of people you trust. This model works all over the world, counter-intuitive or not.

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Episode 170: “Get Your Act Together”

Synopsis

Here are some tips for positioning yourself as a professional when you go to networking events.

  1. Look the part. Don’t wear jeans to a professional networking event. Be well-rested if you’re going to a morning event. Shirts with company logos are appropriate. Brand yourself appropriately.
  2. Make sure your body language sends the right message. Watch your posture, eye contact, and gestures.
  3. Be prepared. Know where your business cards are.
  4. Remember to smile. Studies have shown that this makes you seem more open and forthright.

This podcast is based on Dr Misner’s article “Get Your Act Together” at Entrepreneur.com.

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