October 28th, 2009
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This week Dr. Misner continues his discussion with Dr. Mark Goulston, author of Just Listen.
The topic for this week is how to take listening from being transactional to being transformational. To do this, you need to get them to uncross their arms—literally and figuratively—by getting them to talk about their passion.
One question you can ask is “Imagine you wake up five years from now and life is perfect. What do you see in your career? What are you doing?” That conversation can transport people into a future that they’ve never thought about. It’s amazing how you will bond with that person.
That’s the kind of question that would be perfect for a one-to-one in BNI.
For some great free resources, including questions to ask in order to delegate more effectively, visit JustListentheBook.com.
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September 16th, 2009
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It’s not the anchor that holds a ship in place during a storm, but the length of chain connecting it. The captain watches the first mate to see where he needs to lay the chain to counter the winds.
This is a metaphor for BNI. How many links are there in your chain of relationships? Can you extend your chain in times when the economic winds are blowing against you? Have a one-on-one meeting with everyone in your chapter at least once a year.
Your BNI director is like the first mate on the ship, watching to see which way the wind blows and signaling which adjustments need to be made for the welfare of the group.
What are you doing to lengthen and strengthen your chain? Leave your comments here.
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